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Heidi's avatar

Seth, people are missing another important factor here, which was a massive factor.

We watched a grieving father with a known stutter and a head cold have his dead son denigrated to his face.

Then we still expected him to have a pristine debate performance, and are trying to punish him because he did not.

I have lost a son. Let me be very clear.

The fact that this was allowed to happen without anyone putting a stop to it or calling it out for how absolutely low and unacceptable that was, is a problem.

I have not seen, read, or heard a single reporter, debate moderator, official, or celebrity say even one word about how wrong that was. This isn’t even being talked about at all as a factor. Friends, it was a MASSIVE one.

Had this happened to me during a debate?

1. I’d have called out the moderators for letting it stand.

2. I’d have said to my opponent: I’m happy that you’ve never lost a child, sad that you have no compassion, and wouldn’t even wish this on scum like you.

3. I’d have walked off the debate stage.

If you haven’t ever lost a child, and I sincerely hope you have not, you can’t begin to fathom what that felt like for him. He took a knockout-level punch to his most tender, vulnerable spot. In front of the entire world. And yet, he Kept Fucking Going because he understood the stakes. The courage and resolve that took is astonishing, and I’m humbled and moved by it.

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Melody Leslie's avatar

I wish you were the publisher of the New York Times. I cannot imagine how hard you have been working to turn this out so quickly. Thank you.

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